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How to Find Soulful Self-Esteem and Exude Confidence

A juicy joyful article I wrote was chosen as today’s Pick of the Day Feature Article on Diva Toolbox! Read, “How to Find Soulful Self-Esteem and Exude Confidence” at the very cool Diva Toolbox site by clicking here!

Many of us make the mistake of constantly adding to ourselves in our attempts to increase our self-esteem. We think if we do more, earn more, create more, or elevate our status somehow, then we’ll feel authentically confident. But the trick to finding soulful self-esteem is actually one of subtracting. If you recognize that you are not as authentically confident as you’d like to be, it can only mean that you are holding some negative judgments about yourself, either consciously or subconsciously.

Some people look at the circumstances of their lives and draw the mistaken conclusion that their circumstances provide evidence that the negative beliefs they hold about themselves are true. But this is backwards thinking.

If you have a lot of seeming “evidence” in your life to support your negative beliefs about yourself, consider this fact: the only thing your “evidence” proves is that you have the negative belief to begin with. It’s the belief itself that creates the results you see.

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    in November 10th, 2010 @ 00:14

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  • herbalife

    in October 18th, 2010 @ 13:00

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    • admin

      in October 18th, 2010 @ 13:51

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  • RedMango

    in October 18th, 2010 @ 12:29

    Very nice post!


    • admin

      in October 18th, 2010 @ 12:38

      Thank you, RedMango!